August 12, 1980 to October 23, 2006

Robert Andrew Romero

“A dreamer is one who can only find his way
by moonlight, and his punishment is
that he sees the dawn before the rest of the world." Oscar Wilde“

Monday, January 10, 2011

I was in New Mexico this Christmas and I went to see Andrew's grandmother, Lina.  This wonderful woman is 89 years old and younger and healthier than I am.  It was a wonderful visit.  I don't know if you remember me telling you this but Andrew was cremated.  While I was visiting with Lina she told me that Andrew's father intends to bury Andrew's ashes with her ashes when she crosses over.

I think Andrew would like that very much and it makes me feel good to know that he will be with her.  They loved each other very very much.

I have the distinct impression that I have been dreaming about Andrew recently but can't remember the dreams - I wish I could - I miss him and have had a very hard time recently with my grief.


Mary Sheehan Winn said...

Dearest Cara, I know you just struggle and struggle with your grief.
Whomever says it gets easier probably hasn't experienced it.
{{{{Cara}}} a big hug..wish I could do more.

Cara said...

Thank you Mary -